Emma James
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Is Losing Really Losing? and How To Get Your Ass Back Into Gear
In competition, most of us have had losses at times. Either spectacular defeats, things not going to plan or just plain beaten. There are a number of different reactions after this and of course the usual two are 1) THATS IT! IM NEVER DOING THIS AGAIN! ITS OVER! 2) BUGGER THAT! I'll get the barstewards next time. Now, for most of us a loss, especially at a high and very... (posted by Emma 1 year 158 days ago.)
In competition, most of us have had losses at times. Either spectacular defeats, things not going to plan or just plain beaten. There are a number of different reactions after this and of course the usual two are 1) THATS IT! IM NEVER DOING THIS AGAIN! ITS OVER! 2) BUGGER THAT! I'll get the barstewards next time. Now, for most of us a loss, especially at a high and very... (posted by Emma 1 year 158 days ago.)
You Make Me Feel Bad!
Are you at cause or at effect? Do you give excuses and reasons for not doing things? Have you ever said "he/she MAKES me feel bad"? Well that is about as at effect as you can get. Being at effect is pretty much finding many reasons to blame our own reactions and behaviours on. We frequently blame others and events for our not achieving and when you do this then you are at "effect". When you move to cause, you are "at... (posted by Emma 3 years 120 days ago.)
Are you at cause or at effect? Do you give excuses and reasons for not doing things? Have you ever said "he/she MAKES me feel bad"? Well that is about as at effect as you can get. Being at effect is pretty much finding many reasons to blame our own reactions and behaviours on. We frequently blame others and events for our not achieving and when you do this then you are at "effect". When you move to cause, you are "at... (posted by Emma 3 years 120 days ago.)
Are our Memories in fact Real?
So, what is out reality? What in fact are our memories? Our reality is completely based on our experience, our events through our life, the environment we grew up in, our social circle and our external stimulus plus the way in which we think and our own values and beliefs. All of these things come together to give us what we believe is our reality. In fact, our own reality is what we see through our own eyes and... (posted by Emma 3 years 120 days ago.)
So, what is out reality? What in fact are our memories? Our reality is completely based on our experience, our events through our life, the environment we grew up in, our social circle and our external stimulus plus the way in which we think and our own values and beliefs. All of these things come together to give us what we believe is our reality. In fact, our own reality is what we see through our own eyes and... (posted by Emma 3 years 120 days ago.)
Sexual Fetish Addiction - Social Issue or Real problem?
Something which is very prevalent in our society today is the fact that we have to hide our preferences which appear to be socially unacceptable. Anything which is deemed to be "deviant" is then assumed to be not "normal" and therefore should be hidden. This in itself then creates a behavior which is secretive and creates a feeling of anticipation which in itself is then felt as exhilarating and... (posted by Emma 3 years 205 days ago.)
Something which is very prevalent in our society today is the fact that we have to hide our preferences which appear to be socially unacceptable. Anything which is deemed to be "deviant" is then assumed to be not "normal" and therefore should be hidden. This in itself then creates a behavior which is secretive and creates a feeling of anticipation which in itself is then felt as exhilarating and... (posted by Emma 3 years 205 days ago.)
Regaining Belief in your Competing Ability
When I run any adverts for my NLP courses I always use the word “pragmatic" in the description of the course. Something which always bothered me about my profession was that claims were sometimes that NLP was all you needed, it could change anything and you could create changes in any sphere you wished. What bothered me most was that ultimately our profession was doing exactly the same as others and in fact... (posted by Emma 3 years 290 days ago.)
When I run any adverts for my NLP courses I always use the word “pragmatic" in the description of the course. Something which always bothered me about my profession was that claims were sometimes that NLP was all you needed, it could change anything and you could create changes in any sphere you wished. What bothered me most was that ultimately our profession was doing exactly the same as others and in fact... (posted by Emma 3 years 290 days ago.)
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